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The 7 Deadly Sins—Pride, Greed (Avarice), Lust, Envy, Gluttony, Wrath, and Sloth—are classic “capital vices”: root-level habits that spawn other harmful behaviors. They aren’t one-off mistakes but patterns that bend desire, attention, and action away from what’s good for you and others. Their antidotes are the “contrary virtues”: Humility, Charity/Generosity, Chastity, Kindness, Temperance, Patience, and Diligence. This 2025 edition adds clear definitions, modern examples (including at work), and small practices to retrain your habits.
Short definition: The 7 Deadly Sins are a traditional catalog of capital vices—“capital” from caput (head)—because they lead to many other sins. These are habit patterns rather than single slips: entrenched grooves of thinking and wanting that, left unchecked, degrade character, relationships, and community.
The list:
Key idea: The opposite of each vice is not shame; it’s practice—concrete behaviors that build the contrary virtue over time. You don’t merely “avoid vice”; you train desire toward the good.
Though born in a Christian context, the seven read like pre‑modern moral psychology. Modern terms map surprisingly well: ego defenses (pride), scarcity mindset (greed), compulsion (lust), social comparison (envy), overconsumption (gluttony), dysregulated anger (wrath), and meaning fatigue/avoidance (sloth).
This edition is structured for clarity and action:
Below, you’ll find each sin in the same pattern: essence → modern lens → at work → contrary virtue → micro‑practices. Use the micro‑practices like reps at the gym: small, repeatable actions that slowly retrain attention and desire.
Essence (plain): An inflated, distorted self‑regard that resists reality checks. Pride centers the self so completely that others become mirrors or obstacles.
Modern lens: Ego defensiveness, status signaling, “I’m the exception,” inability to receive feedback, reputation over reality.
At work: Hoarding credit, talking over others, dismissing junior voices, never asking clarifying questions, interpreting critique as attack.
Contrary virtue: Humility—not self‑loathing, but accurate self‑assessment + openness to learn.
Micro‑practices:
Mini‑script:
“Here’s what I was aiming for, here’s where it landed, and here’s how I’ll adjust. Anything I’m not seeing yet?”
Essence: Excessive grasping—money, power, status, attention. It is scarcity‑mindset in action: never enough.
Modern lens: Over‑optimizing compensation at the expense of relationships, turf wars, “data hoarding,” networking only upward.
At work: Withholding information, designing incentives that reward solo success and punish collaboration, “my team vs. your team” politics.
Contrary virtue: Charity/Generosity—sharing resources, credit, and opportunities; designing systems that reward contribution to the whole.
Micro‑practices:
Try this reflection:
“If I got everything I’m chasing, what would I be afraid to lose next?” (Greed moves the goalposts; generosity unmasks that drift.)
Essence: Disordered desire—treating persons (or even achievements) as objects for self‑stimulation.
Modern lens: Compulsive novelty seeking; addiction to the high of the next win; boundary violations; reducing people to utility.
At work: Hustle addiction, achievement‑chasing without recovery, “performative networking,” blurred lines in power dynamics.
Contrary virtue: Chastity—rightly ordered desire and self‑mastery. It’s not prudishness; it’s dignity and consent elevated above impulse.
Micro‑practices:
Checkpoint:
“Am I loving people and using things—or using people and loving things?”
Essence: Pain at another’s good—if they have it, I lose.
Modern lens: Doom‑scrolling others’ highlight reels, resentment at peers’ promotions, subtle undermining.
At work: “Left‑handed compliments,” low‑key sabotage, withholding praise, undercutting in meetings.
Contrary virtue: Kindness/Gratitude—the ability to celebrate others’ good and learn from it.
Micro‑practices:
Phrase to use:
“Seeing you do X clarified what I want to learn next—could I ask you 2–3 questions about your path?”
Essence: Excess—traditionally food/drink; today also inputs: content, meetings, tabs, feeds.
Modern lens: Information binging, calendar bloat, endless grazing on Slack/WhatsApp, inability to sit with an unfilled moment.
At work: Too many meetings, no focus time, “just one more link” spirals, compulsive notifications.
Contrary virtue: Temperance—right measure; designing limits that keep joy and clarity intact.
Micro‑practices:
Tiny test:
Can you leave your phone in another room for 45 minutes without anxiety? If not, you’ve found your next practice.
Essence: Disordered anger—not the presence of anger (which can be signal), but unregulated expression or simmering resentment.
Modern lens: Fight‑or‑flight hair‑trigger, sarcastic venting, revenge tasks, ghosting.
At work: Public outbursts, hostile emails, stonewalling, “punishment by process” (making things difficult for someone you’re angry at).
Contrary virtue: Patience—regulation first; then timely, truthful response.
Micro‑practices:
Boundary check:
Anger’s job is to name a boundary—not to scorch the earth. Do both: name, then repair if needed.
Essence: Not laziness; avoidance of the good that’s yours to do. Acedia feels like listlessness, meaning‑fatigue, or restless procrastination.
Modern lens: Doom‑scrolling while “busy,” over‑planning instead of starting, drifting from what matters because it’s emotionally heavy.
At work: Procrastinating “the one meaningful task,” living in low‑stakes busywork, never committing because committing risks failure.
Contrary virtue: Diligence—steady, value‑aligned effort.
Micro‑practices:
Reframe:
Don’t wait to feel motivated; act small, let motivation catch up.
Sin |
Essence (1‑liner) |
Contrary Virtue |
2–3 Practices You Can Start This Week |
Pride |
Inflated, defensive self‑regard |
Humility |
Steel‑man one critique; ask one genuine learning question per meeting; share credit in writing. |
Avarice |
Excessive grasping (money, power, attention) |
Charity/Generosity |
Monthly give‑list; share dashboards/docs by default; add a team‑outcome KPI. |
Lust |
Disordered desire; using people or wins as objects |
Chastity |
Input‑based goals; schedule recovery; explicit consent and bright‑line policies. |
Envy |
Pain at another’s good |
Kindness/Gratitude |
Envy log → learning plan; weekly praise note; spotlight someone else monthly. |
Gluttony |
Excess input/consumption |
Temperance |
90‑min deep‑work block; meeting diet; batch email + archive. |
Wrath |
Unregulated anger |
Patience |
90‑second physiological reset; SBI feedback; repair script. |
Sloth |
Avoiding one’s proper work |
Diligence |
10‑minute bridge; energy‑based planning; weekly task pruning. |
Try these:
Use the following questions as a weekly review. Mark any “Yes” as a potential focus area:
Pick one “Yes,” pair it with two micro‑practices from above, and run a 30‑day experiment.
Day 1: Pick your focus sin (the pattern you trip on most). Write why it matters to you in 3 lines.
Day 2: Choose two micro‑practices. Block them on your calendar (yes, literally).
Day 3: Tell an accountability buddy the specific habit you’re testing.
Day 4: Add one bright‑line (e.g., phone out of room for first 45 minutes of deep work).
Day 5: Reflect: What got easier? What’s still sticky? Adjust one variable.
Day 6: Rest and review—virtue builds with recovery.
Day 7: Celebrate a small win; write one sentence you’re proud of (humility isn’t hiding progress).
Repeat weekly for a month. Expect small, compounding gains—not fireworks.
Case 1 — Pride at the stand‑up:
A senior PM dismisses a junior engineer’s risk call‑out. Two weeks later, the risk becomes a real blocker. Practice: Start each stand‑up with “unknowns check.” The PM also adds a learning question to each review: “What am I missing?” That lowers ego defensiveness and surfaces reality faster.
Case 2 — Greed in incentive design:
A sales team’s comp plan rewards individual bookings only, so reps hoard leads. Pipeline volatility rises. Practice: Add a team quota component and a monthly “give‑list” ritual (intros/resources). Sharing becomes rational, not just noble.
Case 3 — Gluttony + Sloth loop:
A content lead has 22 tabs open and “research” morphs into avoidance. Practice: Close everything, set a 10‑minute bridge, and start a draft. Run a 90‑minute deep‑work sprint. The first paragraph gets written—momentum begins.
Case 4 — Wrath repair:
A manager fires off a snarky email late at night. Morning regret. Practice: Repair script: “Here’s what I did; here’s the impact; here’s my next step. I apologize.” The relationship recovers, and they adopt a policy: no feedback emails after 7 p.m.
The Seven are not about being perfect; they’re about noticing patterns early and practicing better ones. If you only take one thing from this guide, let it be this: pick one virtue and train it like a skill for 30 days. Small, consistent reps beat dramatic intentions every time.
If you want a printable checklist, a mini self‑assessment, or a team workshop outline, say the word—I can spin those up to match this guide’s structure.
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