Conflict Resolution

Understanding Conflict Resolution in Coaching

Definition

'Conflict resolution coaching (or conflict coaching) is a one-on-one process that assists individuals in understanding and resolving specific personal or professional disputes. Community Boards’ programme describes conflict coaching as confidential sessions where coaches help clients clarify their situation, broaden perspectives and learn conflict resolution skills. During a session, the coach guides the client through steps such as defining the problem, understanding needs and interests, broadening perspectives by considering the other party’s viewpoint, visioning a desired future, brainstorming solutions, selecting appropriate tools and creating an action plan. Benefits include feeling heard and validated, expanding perspectives, identifying one’s own and others’ needs, generating options, selecting tools to manage the conflict and developing a plan for resolution. Conflict coaching differs from mediation in that it empowers one party to handle conflict more effectively rather than facilitating negotiation between parties. It is useful for workplace disputes, family conflicts, neighbour disagreements or any situation where improved communication and self-management could resolve tension. By practising skills such as active listening, reframing and assertive communication, clients build confidence to navigate conflicts constructively.',

Frequently Asked Questions

What is the purpose of conflict resolution coaching?

It helps individuals gain clarity on conflicts, explore perspectives, identify needs and develop skills and strategies to manage or resolve disputes on their own.

How is conflict coaching different from mediation?

Mediation involves a neutral third party facilitating dialogue between conflicting parties to reach an agreement. Conflict coaching works with one person to build skills and strategies for handling conflict.

Who can benefit from conflict resolution coaching?

Anyone dealing with interpersonal or professional disputes-employees, managers, neighbours or family members-can gain skills to manage conflict constructively.

What happens during a conflict coaching session?

A session typically includes defining the problem, exploring needs and interests, broadening perspectives, visioning desired outcomes, brainstorming solutions, selecting tools and developing an action plan.

How long does conflict coaching take?

Some conflicts may be addressed in a single session, while more complex issues could require several meetings to practise skills and implement the action plan.